Now reader, what I’m about to write may not be a big deal to you, but it is to me…I love wearing glasses. Glasses are a part of my face; a part of my being. So, here’s the news…
I’m getting new glasses…IN TWO DAYS!!
Yup. Aaaah!! After 4 hours, in over four different opticians last week, I FINALLY found comfort in two frames in Specsavers. (I’m so thankful that I did this last week! This week, I’ve been flopped on the sofa poorly! Booooo!)
I LOVE the frames that I’ve chosen for my next stage in life. They’re comfortable, big and suit me. My current specs have unfortunately gone a bit rusty and I felt like I needed a change before I get married next year. (WHOOP!) 🙂
Even though I’m happy and relieved to have finally found new specs, I can’t stop but feel a little nostalgic about my current specs. So let’s talk about it… (Blogging helps the grieving process, ya know?)
You see, when I was eleven, I was relieved that I needed glasses. I had started to think that I was stupid for not being able to see the board at school, or for not being able to work out if someone in the distance was walking towards me or away from me.
Even though I loved the fact that I could see things, between the ages of eleven to eighteen, I rarely allowed people to take photographs of me with glasses on. I just thought my face looked silly, and looking back, I unfortunately still feel that way. The frames just weren’t right. So, I made a change.
At the age of nineteen, just before I started my second year of university, I got my current glasses and I adored them. For the past 4 and a half years, I have felt comfortable and ‘me’ in these glasses. From the very first day of owning them, I wore them in photographs and have been so proud of them.
Whilst wearing these glasses, I…
- Discovered what it means to have true friends
- Gave presentations, wrote tales and analysed literature at undergraduate level
- Moved to Winchester for my final year at university
- Wrote my 10k dissertation
- Graduated with a 2.1 degree
- Started my first full time job
And now here comes the soppier stuff. Whilst wearing these glasses, I…
- Found a best friend
- Fell in love
- Braved it and had my first kiss
- Went on lots of dates and continued to fall in love
- Got engaged to Scott in Rome
(All in this order!)
Nerdyness and joy; perfect examples of what my life has been like since putting on these specs all of those years ago.
I am so thankful that these glasses helped me to love who I am. They have been part of ‘me’ for a long time and I’m so grateful. I will always be so fond of them, and will certainly not be getting rid of them. However, the time has come for a change. It’s not a very drastic change, in fact, I bet the majority won’t even see a difference! All the same, I’m excited for my new, fresh look that’ll feature in our engagement photo shoot with our wedding photographer in a few weeks – yay! 🙂
As a final note, to those who dislike their appearance, remember that you are unique. Truly unique and wonderful.
Embrace your face; frames or no frames.